• On Life and Love

    DRAGON KAAAAAHN!

    Things were complicated at DragonCon last year. It was my first attendance, which was awesome and amazing, but things were starting to go south in my triad and I didn’t know how to escape, even at an event as large as DragonCon. For all that the con was fascinating and exhausting in its own right, the relationship stuff cast a shadow on it. So with the triad dissolved, I dragged my feet on signing up for DragonCon 2013. If Greg and I roomed with Deana (major question #1), we’d be persons 7 and 8 in the room. Eight people. In one room. (Last year we were 5th and 6th, and…

  • On Life and Love

    Months of 5’s, 3’s, and 1’s

    I’ve been lifting via the 5/3/1 program since December 2011. In the last year, I’ve completed 8 months of lifting. Consistent, not so much, but I was stalling enough in the last couple of months that I decided to recalculate my maxes last week. When I started last December, I was still doing shoulder rehab (at home) thrice weekly. My shoulder hurt every day. Even trying to do an assisted pull-up would cause days’ worth of escalation of shoulder pain. It’s hard to make a true assessment of my upper-body strength at the time, because so much is driven by the ability to strongly and painlessly rotate ones shoulders: pushups,…