On Life and Love

Whatever is making or breaking my day.

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    Last Straw

    The last straw occurred when untested, uncommitted code was taken from my machine, made to work, and put into production with an email detailing the things I’d done wrong. …In code I’d said wasn’t ready or tested… Don’t get me wrong: there were plenty of other straws over the last few months. I wanted to be free at the end of last quarter (Thanksgiving), but felt it would economically unwise for me to do so. I’m feeling stronger now, and so I’ll be free at the end of 2006, barring any contractual problems. Down to two jobs, very soon now, which is fine by me. Except… what am I going…

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    Lastest obsession

    Ze Frank and his show “the show“. This man is too funny. I’ve started watching “the show” from the beginning. Did I mention the man is hot? It’s probably mostly the humor, but his facial expressions are charmingly cute. As is his dancing. Although he reminds me creepily of a mix between Dr. FooFoo McKnuckleberry and one of my former news editors. Allow me to also point you to his talk at TED. No, not like the much-hated TED of United Airlines. Some other TED. Maybe associated with Beemers. (Edited to add additional detail.)

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    This Week’s Del.icio.us bookmarks

    Shared bookmarks for del.icio.us user Irrsinn Elf M. Sternberg – Smart spammer, stupid move. — This is the best spam, ever. Spammers are getting just too good. Tagged as: [spam] SCARED OF SANTA GALLERY: Tis the season to be scared witless — F’ing hilarious. Tagged as: [children holidays humor] Ian Harvie: You do not belong — Mr. Harvie’s telling of the ladies’ bathroom story. Tagged as: [society sexuality] You Don’t Belong — And I thought I had trouble with the short hair and men’s clothes. Day-um. Tagged as: [society sexuality] soul sides: CLIPSE: THE TREACHERY OF HUSTLERS — "Is hip-hop the only lyric-based genre (in other words, excluding jazz or…

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    Your resident nerdy girl

    Saturday night, Dre (Andrea) hosted up a nice sex toy company-sponsored party that I attended. Hilariously enough, I think I was the most knowledgeable there, although it was my first time seeing certain kinds of vibrators in person (ones with rotating beads and swiveling heads). I disapproved of some of the products being sold–muscle relaxants, vaginal tighteners, and desensitizers–but out of safety concerns. The rest of the stuff was pretty cool. Anyway, the party was a blast; Dre seemed worried at the small turnout, but I thought it was great, and her sister was a trip. There was that moment, though… that moment where someone was telling a story or…

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    NaNo-ness

    NaNoWriMo is done. I didn’t get 50k words, but I learned a hell of a lot about writing. I’m continuing the story for NaNoFiMo. My biggest problem was not having a plan at all when I started. I dreamt up characters, kept sparse notes, and plugged away… for about 22k words. As I approached the climax of the story (too soon, at that!), I was having to devote too much mental energy to figuring out what would happen when I wanted to be devoting energy to skillfully delivering that climax. Um… that crisis, I mean. Yeah. To make things worse, there isn’t really a good subplot to add complexity and…